Handling Imposter Syndrome
You're not alone. Everyone feels this way.
What Imposter Syndrome Looks Like
Thoughts:
"They'll find out I'm not as good as they think"
"I just got lucky"
"Next PR will reveal I'm a fraud"
"I don't deserve my success"
Reality:
"You're skilled and grew because of hard work"
"You earned every acceptance"
"Your PRs prove your ability"
"You absolutely deserve to be here"Quick Reality Checks
When doubt hits:
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Look at your PRs
- They were merged
- Code review passed
- Tests pass
- You did that
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Read comments praising your work
- Save kind comments
- Review them when doubting
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Remember your journey
- You were clueless 6 months ago
- You learned
- You shipped code
- You have proof
Managing the Syndrome
❌ Trying to be perfect
✅ Accepting "good enough" is excellent
❌ Never speaking up
✅ Sharing your ideas
❌ Comparing yourself to others
✅ Comparing yourself to past you
❌ Dismissing your achievements
✅ Celebrating your growthWhen It Gets Severe
If imposter syndrome is affecting mental health:
- Talk to mentor or friend
- Consider therapy
- Take a break if needed
- Remember: many successful people feel this
Imposter syndrome affects the best people. If you're feeling it, you're probably better than you think.